nsmith1971 wrote:
Any advice you have in getting her in from the garden when she in a stubborn mood would be appreciated.lol Apart from this I think she is doing really well and pleased with the progress she is making.
Hi, Please don't think of her as having subborn moods, there is a reason for her doing this, and I would suggest this comes from her past. She will need a much longer time to settle and to realise that you are a kind family, 3 days is such an incredibly short time to have her doing all that you want her to. I would suspect that previously either alot of 'negatives' have happened in the house before OR she was never allowed in the house before, and as such has a fear of coming in. This will need
alot of time to overcome.
I would recommend that you spend 5 minutes as many times as you can during the day doing the following:
Lead on Shally (you keep her on lead so that she cannot wander off in the garden and entertain herself).
Take her out of the doorway out of the house for about 5 foot or so (on lead), but leave your daughter (or Shally's favourite person, but I think you state that she already loves your daughter) in the open doorway to the house (far enough in the doorway to allow Shally to join her when she decides to), have your daughter playing with something, and laughing - BUT NOT calling Shally and a
lmost totally ignoring Shally.
Do NOT try to walk/force her straight back into the house, do not point at or encourage Shally to go indoors AT ALL - but you want her to make up her own mind to want to go to your daughter.
When she actually does this THEN give her a large treat reward.
IE do not use food to lure her back in .. be
totally patient and WAIT for her to want to do to see what your daughter is up to ..
then put some of her treats
ON THE FLOOR, so she has to wander around the house/floor to pick them up.
You have her on the lead so that she cannot wander off in the garden and entertain herself.
So recap - you have her on lead, bait (ie daughter) is happily playing in house entrance, WAIT (could take seconds, could take minutes, could take longer) for SHALLY to decide to go to your daughter. Reward by throwing GOOD food (chicken, cheese) onto the floor in the house.
It is hugely difficult to advise on behavioural matters in a message like this, and I cannot see Shally's body language re going into the house, my advice can be misconstrued and done wrongly, and cannot show you exactly how to do this.
But .. Hope this helps.